“There is nothing called one sided in life," once over heard someone saying it ...but just a question pops up in my mind …does two sided guarantees positive result always ? No it does not.
This thing called feelings, emotion can
never be equal at both ends, and it’s always more at one end and less at
other…at different time, different situations…may be position keeps
shuffling ...
The one thing that you really really want from life often comes at wrong time
And then we just don’t know .how to let it go…knowing it has to go.
All
relationship could be much happier if we love each other rather then
“own” each other. Why do all relationship turn into Game of controlling
each others life when in the beginning we were ready to give so much of
space …..This is not love...This is death of love…most of the time we do
things to prove a point to others …and to ourself ..in the process we
never get to know what really our strength are and what we ought to do
…..
Being alone is not such a bad thing,
if the alternative is compromising on your values, principal happiness;
integrity .Loneliness is just a minor aberration.
We need to know “you will find some one who will care for you are,the way you want “
You
don’t have to change yourself to get loved .stay who you are.dont apply
shortcuts .Shortcuts never gain long term result …while turning the
pages of morning newspaper ,my eyes stuck on an article in” Times of
India”, which says “ Men don’t want to give the truth .They cant face the fact “
I completely disagree .if a woman had so much intuition wouldn’t she
know that the guy was just not that into her, wouldn’t she realize after
her friends telling her so ?why do so many women ask for truth when
truth is staring at them right in face ?it’s probably because women need
to hear it, from him .The man she has given her heart to. ,the real
reason .she want to hear him say the word “I don’t love you” We can
never have a future “ and how many guys have actually said that ?none
because they always want to leave the window of opportunity open for
what if ? that’s the reason that a women remains shattered over a break
up for longer period of time than men .Men don’t need Explanation .They
think it wasn’t meant to be “and have another glass of beer and go back
to working on their excel sheet in the morning .
When
your Expectations are not met, you want a change .but what if you
change your expectation?then you just might be happy .why do we all wait
for some one else to come and bring happiness our life ,happiness is a
state of mind …..no doubt sense of belonging does beautiful thing to
human being : it makes him human …nothing good happens in life without
sincerity .as long as one tries to eep each other happy nothing can come
in between a relationship ..one is really blessed if he/she attains it .
Its
really easy to paint people in White or Black .But life is not that
simple .i Personally feel that we cannot judge people unless we step
into their shoe and unless we really understand their psyche .But
certain relationship are doomed .They are meant to give agony and pain
nothing else .usually these relationship cant be defined ,hence they
don’t have a name .They are just destined .I mean that’s how accidents
happen and you meet wrong people …..
Becoming
man and wife is common but to become soul mate is what few acquire
…the girl has to come out of the mode of being pampered and baby sat as
genrally we girls are use to …..at times becoming a woman is required
to maintain your relationship with adequate maturity and yet not being
boring …at times we keep hurting each other with lot of innocence .Good
bye are never easy ....making it takes time ..there is always some thing
special in begining of everything ..make it stay ...make it work ..dont
let it go ....stop it before you regret .......
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